Month of Giving – Blowjobs

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Give your partner the perfect gift this holiday season…a Blow Job.

Just as our pussies have so much more going on with them than just our clits and vaginas, cocks, too, are very intricate sexual tools that hide a wealth of pleasure points aside from the head and the shaft. There’s a lot more to a perfect blow job, than just sucking on his cock.

If you want to master the art of giving the perfect blow job, there are things you need to know! Follow these simple hints and tips, and discover just how many different ways you can stimulate your lover. In the process, your lover might also learn some techniques that he’ll want to try out on you.

1. Set the mood

Atmosphere is so important, guys like to be wooed too. If he’s coming over to your place, have a beer (or whatever his favorite drink is), ready for when he walks through the door. Make sure you’re dressed to kill – you want his imagination to explode at the sexy sight of you. Have candles lit, and sexy music playing in the background. You want him to be hard within seconds of arriving.

2. Get into position

This is as much for you as it is for him. If you’re not comfortable, you won’t be able to last the distance. Plus, a guy loves to watch your body move, as you’re going down on him, so you still need to look as sexy as possible, whatever position you choose. If you’re going for the standard kneeling position, place a cushion or pillow underneath you. It will make so much difference to your comfort, and mean you can stay down there for longer. There’s nothing as unsexy to a guy, as a girl who’s fidgeting like hell when she’s blowing him. It tells him that she doesn’t want to be down there, which is a huge turn off. This position also maximizes what the guy can see, as he gets the full monty – your back as you move up and down (backs are very sexy), your ass as it sticks out behind you, and your breasts as they undulate to your rhythm. Most importantly, he can see your mouth on his cock. Visually, this is what turns him on the most.

Alternatively, try the bed position. Get your guy to lie flat, then straddle his lower legs and go down on him. This way, you have all the control, and it prevents him from shoving his cock too firmly into your mouth. It’s a great beginner’s position, but the downside is that he can’t really see everything he’d like to, and he’s relinquishing all direction to you. When you’re a little more practiced, get him to sit up on the bed, his legs spread out before him, then you can lie down on your stomach between his legs, and go to work. He gets the view, especially of your ass and legs, but you still retain most of the control.

There’s also the sitting position. He can make himself comfortable in a chair, or on the edge of the bed, and completely relax, while you kneel between his legs. He’ll be free to hold your head and direct you where he wants you, and he also gets a great view of your ass, and your mouth on his cock. It’s also one of the easiest positions from which to massage his balls. Many guys tell me this is their favorite blowing position, because they come quicker, and it requires no effort on their part.

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3. Step outside the box 

Don’t just use your mouth when blowing him, experiment with toys, too. The multiple sensations will excite him, and he won’t know what to expect next. You can never have too many toys. They should be an essential part of your sex kit, and can be of particular use when it comes to enhancing oral sex. Toys should never replace you as a lover, but they can be invaluable when it comes to perfecting blow jobs and hand jobs, so use them to your advantage. You can use a Cock Ring while blowing him, as the combination of vibrator, the tight ring, and your mouth on his cock, will make his orgasm as intense as it can be. Penis Pumps will make his cock harder and bigger, for when you pleasure him, which means double the fun for both of you. Masturbation Sleeves are a great way to combine a hand job with a blow job. Suck his top while you work him manually with the sleeve, and send him to heaven.

4. Cocks aren’t everything…

Don’t just focus on his cock, indulge his balls, taint and ass, too. Try using some Anal Toys while you’re blowing him. The dual sensation of your mouth on his cock, while you penetrate his ass, will blow him in a totally different way. You can also buy cock rings that have anal beads attached. You can blow him, while the beads massage his prostate, leading to a double-intensity orgasm. As you’re blowing him, try stroking along his perineum (taint) with your finger, or alternate sucking his cock with licking him underneath. His taint is one of his super sensitive areas, so go to town on it. You could also use a tickler on his taint while you blow him. Those feathers are just great for slowly building up a climax. On his balls, try and squeeze them gently while you’re blowing him or, even better, use a cock ring with weights attached. This will really crank up the intensity factor while you’re blowing him. Guys also love it when you take their balls in your mouth, so periodically change from sucking his cock, to sucking his balls, but never neglect his cock while you’re doing this – always have your hand ready to take over while you’re giving him some balls action.

5. Take your time

Guys have imaginations, too, so let him lose himself in his. A great technique to make the experience last longer, is to give him an all-over blowjob. Lean your head underneath his cock so your tongue can reach his scrotum (keep a hand on his cock, though…never leave it unattended). Starting in the top left hand corner, lightly run your tongue down the side of his ball, and follow it round, across the bottom, then up the other side. Linger a while, between his balls, flicking your tongue from side to side, then push further back along his taint, then come back and begin drawing your tongue down the side of his other ball, along the bottom, and up the other side, so you’ve completed the full ‘W’ . I guarantee he’ll never have had anyone do that to him before, and you can claim it as your own, unique sexy treat.

6. Look at him 

Guys love to see your face as you suck them off. Try to maintain eye contact, as nothing will excite your guy more, than if he can see how much you’re enjoying blowing him. Make sure to look up at him on regular occasions, while you have his cock in your mouth. It’s a combination of him thinking you need his approval that you’re doing it right, and also a confirmation of how much you’re loving it. For your part, you’ll need to see the look on his own face, to tell you how well you’re doing.

7. Be in control 

Use techniques and toys that put you in charge. If guys feel they’re doing most of the work, you’ll lose your power. Use cooling and warming lubes on his cock to get him started – you can get flavored lubes, too, which will make the experience even nice for you, too. This way, you stay in control. Vary how you blow him. Neither of you wants to get bored, so maximize the blow job by mixing things up – see above.

8. Enjoy it 

The best blow jobs are the ones you both get off on. Finding a technique that pleases you, is just as important as pleasing him. For instance, most guys love it if you’re able to deep throat them, but it can take years to perfect a genuine technique, and can be quite intimidating for the girl, so here’s a quick cheat which you’ll both get off on. Instead of kneeling down to suck him off, get onto the bed, or sofa, and lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge. Your lover will be able to slide his cock into your mouth, and the position of your head allows straight passage to your throat. With the right rhythm, he’ll be able to mouth-fuck you, with little risk of you gagging.

Most of all, when giving blowjobs, stay safeNever give a blow job when you have a cold sore, or are feeling run down. Herpes, in whatever form, is highly contagious and, once you get it, it’s in your system forever, whether it overtly shows itself or not. The only thing you want to be giving your lover, is a mind-blowing orgasm, not a disease.

Get all your fetish and adult sex toys at Sienna Sinclaire’s Sex Toy Store

www.SiennaSinclaireSexShop.com

– Sienna Sinclaire – Your Naughty Lifestyle Expert

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