Month of Giving – Handjobs

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Giving your guy the perfect hand job is like finding the Holy Grail. Once you’ve mastered the art, you’ll always be in demand, and your lover will think you’re the most amazing person on earth which, of course, you are! There are several ways to perfect your technique, and everything takes practice, so be patient, and learn as you go along. Always communicate with your lover and ask him what he likes and how he likes it, then put all of this together, with some extra things you’ll learn here, and soon you’ll be the mistress of the perfect hand job!

Temperature, pressure and speed are the three most important elements to the perfect hand job. Always make sure your hands are nice and soft. Obviously, a guy’s cock is supremely sensitive, so you need to treat it like the the delicate tool it is. Dry hands won’t set the mood you’re both looking for, and it’ll feel to  him as though he’s being stroked with sandpaper, so prepare properly. Either make sure your hands are well-moisturized before you start, or use one of the excellent cooling and warming lubes out there, as they provide the best start to any hand job. Your lover will adore the different sensations on his cock, as you begin your work. Some girls use saliva to keep their hands moist during hand action, but lubes are less distracting, and so much easier, for both of you.

Decide which is your strongest hand and get comfortable – this is very important, as you can only give your best if you’re relaxed and comfortable yourself. You can either sit on the edge of the bed or sofa, or lie back on the bed and have him straddle you, so his cock is right in front of you and you don’t have to move or shift an inch.

Remember that the perfect hand job involves paying attention to his balls, too. You can rest his balls in the palm of one hand, squeezing gently, as you stroke his cock with your other hand. Grip his cock firmly, but not too hard, and twist your hand up and down. When you get to the tip, glide your palm over the top as you turn your hand and stroke back down. And when you reach the base of his shaft on the return twist, squeeze his balls again before you run that hand back up. Getting a rhythm is crucial, and you should be able to tell by his reactions, whether you’re satisfying him. You can also use weights to increase the sensation on his balls, while you pump him.

To make his erection harder, and last longer, use one hand to grip the base of his cock with your finger and thumb, like a cock ring, then use the other hand to stroke him. Whatever position you’re in when giving him a hand job, it should be easy to use your mouth, too, so try working hands and mouth together, to give him the ultimate head. I always like to have a bullet vibe handy, too, so I can work his cock with one hand, and run the vibe over his balls and back along his taint to his ass, with the other. The mixture of sensations and pressures, will mesmerize him.

Some women often feel awkward giving hand jobs, because they think they’ll never be as good as their guy, when he masturbates. But guys know that the two experiences are completely different, and there’s nothing to compare. For a guy, jerking off is a totally separate entity, to when their lover gives them a hand job – the sensation, the intimacy, the whole experience. When guys masturbate, it’s usually to get themselves off as soon as possible, but when their lover is giving them a hand job, they want it to last, and they want it to be a mutually enjoyable experience. Take your time with their balls, teasing them and stroking them little and often, and use the tension in his balls to gauge when he’s close to coming, then you can up the rhythm and speed on his cock. Also take time to stroke his taint and the inside of his thighs while you’re working him, as these areas are highly sensitive, and skin to skin contact with them makes the whole hand job extra intense. Listen to his breathing, and learn to feel the muscle tension in his body, which will tell you instantly how you’re doing.

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– Sienna Sinclaire – Your Naughty Lifestyle Expert

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