Loving Your Pussy – Pussy Awareness

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It’s not just guys who should enjoy the luxury of loving your pussy, it’s you, too. After all, you own it, it’s yours, and it’s up to you how you use it, and how much others admire it. Pussy self-esteem is vital, not only because your confidence will be a turn-on to your lover, but also because it’s important that you and your pussy are in perfect synergy with each other. You need to know every inch of it, and be more intimate with it than your lover would be.

Take time out to really get to know your pussy. When you have time alone, sit down and get a small mirror, and familiarize yourself with every little fold, every pore, every lump, bump and crevice. We’re all different, and our pussies are unique – they’re like fingerprints, no two are the same. You might not think it looks perfect, but perfection is subjective anyway. Learn to celebrate your pussy’s individuality, and that self-love will make your sexual confidence grow, and be super-sexy to your lover.

When you think about your lover, you might get excited by the thought of their cock, or their ass, or their hands and what they can do to you. So the same will go for him. He’ll get excited by the thought of your pussy, when he thinks about you, so it makes sense to know our own pussy, and learn to become just as excited by it, as he is. You should never just save your pussy for his sole enjoyment. You need to get used to satisfying yourself, too. Only by knowing your own pussy literally inside out, can you train yourself to be the best lover you can be. Knowing what turns you on, by taking lessons from your own pussy, will help when it comes to telling your lover how to best please you in bed.

Some women feel self-conscious about their pussy. For instance, when a guy goes down on them, they might get distracted from their own pleasure, by worrying about how they smell or how they taste. These negative thoughts can ruin your enjoyment. But if you’ve already fallen in love with your own pussy, then you’re not going to care about those little things, because you’ll already know that you’re simply just gorgeous down there, and that’s what he’ll be thinking too.

How To Love Your Pussy:

1. Go Bare If You Dare

It’s important to stay neat and tidy down there, for you as well as for him. Our pubic hair does have an important job, it keeps away invaders, dirt and protects our delicate skin from friction. But we don’t have to be over-hairy.

Some girls like to go completely bare (Brazilian waxes feel amazing afterwards), but you don’t have to do this, if you prefer a little cover. Just keep yourself neat, and trim, and short, and you’ll not only look as sexy as hell, but your guy will appreciate it too. Just as you might not like a mouthful of hair when you’re giving him a blow job, guys don’t like hair interfering with the great work they’re doing down there.

Keeping yourself trimmed also reduces the risk of bad smells, which most women can get very paranoid about. Long hair can trap odor and bacteria, which creates more of a  smell. We all have natural odors which are full of pheromones and a huge turn on for guys, but to minimise the risk of bad smells, stay short down there.

It’s not a good idea to shave, though. For one thing, you might get razor burn, which is itchy and very unattractive. Secondly, you risk developing folliculitis, where the new hair grows back at the wrong angle and can’t come up properly through the open follicle, causing blockages. This can be painful and result in spots, boils and even abscesses. Not sexy! So stay away from the razor if possible.

Use waxing strips, or go to a salon and have it done professionally. Alternatively, use hair removal creams, which dissolve away the hair, but never on the night you’re expecting your lover to come over, as most creams have an unpleasant chemical smell which can take a day or so to leave your skin. An increasingly popular depilatory method, is laser hair removal. It’s quick, painless, and your pussy will feel incredible afterwards, trust me!

2. Use A Mirror

Really get to know your pussy. Sit on the edge of the bed or bath, and settle in for some ‘getting to know me’ time. It’s important for you to be visually familiar with what your lover sees when they masturbate you or have sex with you. So next time you’re masturbating, get your mirror (they’re not expensive – around $20 from Target or WalMart for a floor length one) and start playing with yourself, or use your favorite vibrator.

Notice how, the more you get aroused, the wetter your pussy, and your labia and clit become more enlarged. Notice the visual changes, and appreciate how beautiful it looks. This is what your lover sees when they’re turning you on, so it’ll make you less inhibited, or worried, next time they go down on you, or masturbate you.

Also, you’re getting to know your own pussy more, which can only be a good thing in the long run. When you reach your climax, try and pay attention to your pussy (difficult, I know, in the throes of your own passion!), and notice how it contracts and throbs. Our bodies are amazing, and watching ourselves orgasm is one of the most intimate and eye-opening experiences we can have with our pussies.

3. Keep it Fresh

Keeping yourself trim will automatically help you stay fresh, but there are other things you can do, too. Showering every day, or a few times a day (as I do), is always good, and try to get into the habit of not wearing panties. I never wear underwear, because panties can trap in bad bacteria, and your pussy then becomes a breeding ground for bad stuff. Your pussy needs to breathe, so avoid panties if you can.

Only wear bikinis and gym clothes, for their purpose, too. Once you’re done with your workout, or your tanning session, shower and change as soon as possible. Exercise, sunbathing, or having a few hours at the spa, causes your body to sweat, and your clothes will trap this in, which is not good for your pussy.

If you notice any strange or smelly discharge, go to your doctor/gyno as soon as possible. When it’s your period, your natural scent changes anyway, but you’ll know when something is unusual enough to warrant investigation. Listen to your body. Any changes, get yourself checked out.

Every time you go to the toilet, wash your pussy properly. Just wiping with toilet tissue is not enough. If anything, this can spread germs from other parts of your body, like your ass and legs, to your pussy. I always have wet wipes on me, if I’m going to the bathroom away from home. At my house, I have a bidet that I use to wash my pussy properly every time I use the bathroom. And only use warm water when washing your pussy, either in the bidet, or in the shower. Never use soap or perfumed or chemical cleansing agents of any kind. Your pussy has a natural pH level, and a natural scent. Using potions and lotions and soaps down there will only upset this and, ironically, can cause unpleasant smells and yeast infections to form, as your body fights to restore it’s natural pH balance. Also, your natural odor is the very smell that guys love. Don’t mask it!

4. Drink Lots of Water

You should do this anyway, as water really is the elixir of life. For your pussy, especially, drinking plenty of water will help prevent cystitis, yeast infections, and also lower the risk of UTIs (urinary tract infections), which are painful and inconvenient.

5. Make Time For Playtime!

Our pussies love playtime, whether you’re with a lover, or on your own. Treat your pussy to a date night. Wine and dine it! Start off by having a warm bubble bath, then put on some sexy clothes (hot lingerie is a must!), get some sultry iTunes playing, and get yourself in the mood. Buy some sex toys from an online catalog, or your nearest sex store, and settle in for some serious indulgence.

You shouldn’t wait for a lover to buy you presents, or to make you feel sexy. You should feel comfortable spoiling yourself. Splash out on some expensive, sexy bras and panties, or be a bit naughtier and buy that luxury, 3-way vibe you’ve read about in your magazine. Whatever the toy or treat, take time to spoil yourself, and find out what really turns you on.

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