10 Ways To Wear Naughty Items

Ways To Wear Naughty Items
Without Others Knowing

Being naughty doesn’t have to be an overt expression of your sexuality. Sometimes it can be incredibly erotic and sensual to indulge your inner naughtiness through something more discreet and hidden, like jewelry, clothing and accessories which, on their own, might not be that noticeable.

Knowing you’re the only one aware of how kinky you’re being, is enough to put you in a naughty mood, and that’s something others will notice, even if they don’t know why. So I’ve put together some ideas you can try to make you feel sexier all day, whether you’re at home, at work, even away traveling etc. Because when you feel sexy, you feel more confident, and everybody notices a confident woman.

Play around with what feels comfortable, and then decide how obvious you want to make it. The more you get used to being discreetly naughty, the bigger the urge to start revealing a bit more and a bit more, until eventually you’ll be ready to just flaunt your inner devil.


Beautiful pieces of jewelry are the perfect way to add instant sexiness to your outfit. Jewelry can be very personal, so surround yourself with items which tell a story or represent different elements of your sexual character, stories which you only have to share if you want to.

1. Bondage Bracelet

Bracelets are easy things to wear casually. The thing about these beauties is that they’re actually bondage cuffs which you can use to bind yourself or a willing partner. Stacked upon your wrist, however, and they become an effortlessly stylish fashion accessory. Use them as an ice-breaker when you get talking to that hot guy at the bar. Once he finds out what you’re really wearing, he’ll definitely want to know more. 

2. Nipple Vibe Necklace

This pendant is not only a beautiful piece of jewelry, perfect for dressing up any outfit, but it hides a thrilling secret. Inside each silver drop is a motor which discreetly vibrates when switched on. The necklace is designed to fall just long enough so that each drop lies over your nipples when fully extended. You can save the foreplay for when things get heated later, or be super-naughty Iin public and drop one side down your top, enjoying the gentle vibrations of the cool metal against your nipple as you dance, chat or eat dinner with your date. 

3. Vibrator Necklace

This is a gorgeous necklace which comes with the naughtiest of hidden surprises. Secreted in the top of the pendant is a clit vibrator, so you’ve got the perfect plaything literally at your fingertips. The necklace comes in three sexy metallic colors and is fully rechargeable via a USB cable. You can even personalize it with a specially-engraved sexy message. A real essential for your jewelry box, which looks great with a sexy outfit, and even better on a naked body. You’ll be ready for some hot and steamy action at any time, in any place, anywhere.

4. Sexual chakra jewelry

Gold is the color of the sexual chakra (also called the sacral chakra.) The body has seven chakras which need to be balanced in order for us to achieve sexual, physical and emotional nirvana. This bracelet is designed to keep your sexual chakra in tune. Wearing it makes your chakra stronger and heightens your sexual potency. Think of your body as a car which needs constant maintenance. The sexual chakra is the engine which drives you, and this gold daisy bracelet is the key that starts the engine. Feel revved up all day long with this sexual energy-boosting charm, and get an extra kick from knowing that you’re the only one aware of its true power.


The way you dress can tell other people a lot about you. First impressions last, but that doesn’t mean you have to put it all ‘out there.’ Wear what you feel comfortable in, but don’t be afraid to be a bit daring, or to wear things which will definitely get a conversation started.

1. Latex Dress

When you think of latex, you might think of crass, rubber-type outfits that only bondage fetishists wear. But latex has come a long way in a short time, and there’s really nothing naughtier when it comes to forbidden fashion. So it’s time to investigate the sheer variety of latex fashion out there. One of my favorite latex designers is Atsuko Kudo, who makes effortlessly stylish dresses which look as sophisticated as anything on the catwalk. From full evening gowns to cocktail outfits, coats and capes, her clothes will slide onto your body like a second skin, and I guarantee you that nothing feels sexier than walking into a restaurant or club in one her creations.

If you’re after something simpler, Syren Couture can make any outfit to order, from single shirts and skirts to full suits and gowns. Imagine spending the evening in an outfit which has been handmade especially for you? Sexy as hell…

For something different and out there, check out Jane Doe Latex, which offers both pret-a-porter and bespoke couture, specializing in black latex corsets and dresses; William Wilde’s contemporary collection of skirts, lingerie and themed outfits (Dairy maid, Retro, Vixen and Filthy etc); or Pandora Deluxe, which is a bit more burlesque, primal and Gothic, so expect lots of colors, studding and plenty of opportunities to bare some flesh.

2. Lace

The quintessential naughty fabric, lace equals lingerie, so use it to evoke naughty thoughts both in yourself and those who’ll be lucky enough to see you. The idea of lace – the sight, feel and thought of it – appeals to the sexual side of both men and women, it’s a universal turn-on.

Get some inspiration from the internet – check out these pins on Pinterest for some sexy ideas about how to find that perfect lacy outfit to set every pulse racing.

3. Corsets

From images of heaving bosoms and tiny waists, to all that sexy, lace-up action, corsets are super-naughty items of clothing which make girls feel mischievous and guys feel horny. They’re also great to wear in secret, whether to work or on a date. No-one will know, except you, and you’ll have a smile on your face all day. Check out my pins on Pinterest for sexy ways to wear corsets as clothing.

4. Lingerie as outerwear

Lingerie doesn’t have to be hidden away underneath your normal clothes. It’s easy to mix and match something sexy and sassy with some closet standards, so you can look and feel as naughty – or nice – as you want to. Go online and get some inspiration – check out these Pins. 

A great way to bridge the gap between underwear and outerwear is to wear bra tops. My favorite designer is Marlies Dekkers; an expert in creating bras designed to show off. Team any of these bras with a sheer, lace or cutaway top and feel an instant injection of ‘sex kitten.’


Now you have the perfect outfit, just add a few extra touches to finish the look. Like jewelry, accessories can be personal, showing otherwise hidden facets of your sexual character. Have fun and play around with different things, and always be ready to answer the inevitable questions which will come your way.

1. Slave collars

There are lots of doms and subs who go out in public but may not want to make it so obvious what they’re into. Slave collars are a great way of getting into character without being blatant, so only you and your dom know that the collar has a whole different purpose other than the decorative one.

Even if you’re not into BDSM, collars and anklets are erotic pieces of jewelry which invoke feelings of mischief, naughtiness and a real sense of fun, so what’s not to like? Eternity collars can be worn all day, every day and are unisex. Other BDSMers will recognize them, so they can be like a silent calling card if you’re out to find some like-minded action. Alternatively, get something custom-made for you by your lover, or as a gift to yourself. Check out Bizarre Jewelry and Mockingbird Lane Wire Collars from Etsy. Wearing something that’s unique to you is always a special feeling and allows you to make a statement with subtlety.

2. Heel accessories

A relatively new addition to the naughty fashion closet, heel accessories are the perfect way to jazz up your tired old black shoes, or make any footwear look instantly sexier. Fräulein Kink carries some of the sexiest heel cuffs and restraints for your boots/heels. You can add anyone of their cuffs to your shoes for decoration and/or connect the restraints to the cuffs for something a little kinky. Make sure to check out their other unique items listed on their website from cat ears, bondage, gags and more. Being kinky never looked so glamorous!  

~ Sienna Sinclaire – Naughty Lifestyle Expert – Los Angeles Sex & Dating Coach

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2 Responses to 10 Ways To Wear Naughty Items

  1. Gayle says:

    Best page I have found on wearing kinky gear in public! I wear an attractive corset outside my clothes, see through skirts and see through blouses. Collars are great and I will try a metal one. I like your idea of slave handcuffs – will try it! Love ankle chains too.

    • Gayle says:

      Adding to the above: today I bought a pair of the bondage bracelets as described above. Am trying just one at present until I feel comfortable in public with both. Re. my corset, it is the below bust type, boned, with hooks in front and laced up at the back. Fantastic for good deportment and general sense of well being! Also love using a butt plug with a leather butt plug harness. Also re. ankle chains, I did not mean bondage sort but the Indian dancer type. Mid-summer here and very hot. Women and girls at the mall showing a lot of skin, especially legs. Few women wear shoes here except for the office or store, even in winter, thongs or sandals and always barefoot in the house. Joggers, of course, for walking and – jogging.

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