January is “Celebration of Life” Month, so it’s time to celebrate what creates life…SEX! Our sexuality is what makes us and we all have our own brand of naughtiness, so why don’t we use it more? Sexuality is a state of mind, it’s how you feel and how you project yourself to others.
Religious and cultural indoctrination can stunt our sexual growth because we’re told that sex shouldn’t be enjoyed, and that can hamper our confidence, so it’s time to shake off the guilt and stand up and shout “This is who I am!”
Use Your Sexuality to…
It can be hard to emerge from your sexual shell if you’re low on self-esteem, or worse, if someone else is causing it. But it doesn’t matter what age, size or shape you are, confidence comes from what’s inside, not what’s on the outside, and getting in touch with your sexuality is the best way to gain confidence.
Forget about what you see and read in magazines and on TV about what beauty is. Beauty is confidence, and confidence is beauty. I know plenty of skinny, gorgeous girls who never have trouble attracting men, but who are miserable inside because they just don’t know who they are. I also know larger women who light up a room the moment they step inside a room because they’re comfortable with who they are, and that makes them sexy. But it works both ways everyone no matter your size, looks, etc.
Something I say over and over in my Confidence section of my Naughty Program, is that the number one thing that attracts someone is confidence, pure and simple, and I can show you how to get it with my Confidence programs below.
Get Quality Dates
You also have to use your sexuality to change the way you think about dating. Ask yourself…do you always pick lovers who let you down? Do you think you don’t deserve someone who will treat you properly?
It’s all about getting in tune with your sexuality and recognizing what makes you tick, so you find a partner who can do the same. One way to do this is to re-examine the way you date. There are alternatives to monogamy, for instance, but not enough people explore the other options.
This is why so many relationships fail, because you’re in the wrong kind of relationship. Many people think there’s only one way to date, but there are many ways to date. The Dating section of my Naughty Program below, can help you identify your unique dating style, and therefore learn which type of relationship is best suited for you. Remember, it’s not the quantity of dates which makes you a great lover, it’s the quality.
Improve Your Sex Life
Sex and sexuality are not the same thing so learning the difference is vital if you’re to become a great lover. Celebrating your sexuality, for both men and women, means opening yourself up to one another, (and to yourself alone) so you can see, feel, smell, hear and taste exactly what turns one another on.
Shedding inhibitions, learning to communicate and feeling confident enough to try new things, are all essential tools you’ll need to improve your sex life. In my Sex section of my Naughty Program, I go into step-by-step detail on how to embrace and future your own sexuality so you can become the lover you’ve always wanted to be.