We might have secret fantasies that we’ve never shared with our lovers, or perhaps even admitted to ourselves. But there’s nothing wrong with a little experimentation. In the process, you might even discover other things you never knew existed. Or, even better, that the naughty little fetish you’ve always harbored sexual lusting after is shared by your lover, too. Everything from electrical shock stimulation and nipple clamps, to ball stretchers and playing with hot wax. Just use your imagination, and see how far it takes you. You might not feel comfortable with everything but, as the old saying goes, if you don’t try…how do you know?
Below are four new fetishes to try out this week to spice things up in the bedroom!
You can literally turn up the power, with this electro-sex kit. Inside, you’ll find several self-adhesive pads which can be fixed to any area of the body. The power controller can send varying shocks through the pads, to stimulate your sensitive areas. Anything from gentle tingling sensations, to fully-charged throbbing, whatever turns you on. There are over 100 stimulation combos to choose from, so you’ll have plenty of time and scope to experiment on each other, and see what works for both of you. Use a water-based lube to enhance current flow, and keep skin moisturized.
Most people think it’s only guys who get off on the sight and feel of erect nipples, but girls know that their nipples are one of their most sensitive areas. These vibrating nipple clamps can be fixed to your breasts as lightly or tightly as you choose. The handheld power generator can send 10 different degrees of vibration direct to your nipples, from gentle pulsations, to full-on nipple rockers. The kit comes with a free satin mask, for extra spicy bondage play. You don’t have to be in a relationship to use this. Solo players can get just as much self-satisfaction from getting to know their breasts. Men, too, might be surprised to find that their own nipples aren’t devoid of sensitivity, either. A great wake-up toy.
Some guys like to have their balls played with during sex, but it’s not always easy to oblige when your hands are otherwise engaged with other things…
To that end, this contraption takes care of ball stimulation, and a whole lot more. The leather parachute fixes around the balls and has six holes through which varying weights can be attached. Your lover (or you!) might like just a light weight pulling at your balls during sex or masturbation. But if like a proper tug, there’s room to attach as heavy a weight as you can bear, so it’s really up to you.
We’ve all seen those movies where the temptress pours hot candle wax onto her lover’s naked body, then gets lower…and lower…as the poor guy writhes impatiently, desperate to be sated. Well now you can recreate Hollywood in your own bedroom, with these great little candles. Once lit, they give off a deliciously sexy aroma, which will really get you in the mood. Get into position and take the candle in your hand, then drip the hot wax over their body. The wax turns into a massage oil once dripped onto the skin, so you can give your lover a nice massage too. Once they feel that hot bolt of waxy lightning, your hands should already be working it into their body. Great for sharing, great for spoiling yourself, the candle temperature is deliberately a few degrees lighter than a normal candle, so it won’t burn your skin. A massaging hot wax, all in one clever candle. This is a fetish we can all get used to. Choose from aromas including Mediterranean Almond, Tropical Nights, Island Passions, and Deep Ocean.
– Sienna Sinclaire® – Naughty Lifestyle Guide – Los Angeles Dating & Sex Coach